Introversion+Sensing+Thinking+Judging
These four letters are just the threshold for getting to know yourself or someone who identifies as ISTJ. Known as planners, these folks are by far the champions of organization and preparedness. ISTJ’s are experts at bringing uncertainty to the lowest percentage.
The word introversion provides insight into the quiet, contemplative side of their nature. However, the word independence could be a substitution as ISTJ’s are capable of going it alone in most social situations. Why? There’s a DIY component built-in. Sure, the norm for humans is to work in some sort of socialized group. An ISTJ probably has tried over time to join in, however, if the group becomes muddled in personalities rather than tasks, the ISTJ may decide to fade away. If persons with whom they interact demonstrate a lack of response twice, it’s time to move on. The ISTJ know doubt has acted with sincerity and interest. They don’t often attempt a connection so if it’s ignored, so too will be the person in the future. ISTJ’s have great memories for who can be relied upon for making connections. A pattern will emerge. These patterns become the ISTJ’s plan book for how to navigate social connections.
The dislike of a fuss is a common trait. It’s not conflict avoidance, rather a need to not put energy into creating conflicts. ISTJ’s are great at giving others their space. Do what is best for you is a common belief, however, leave me out of whatever it is you are doing! It’s not conflict avoidant. It’s not that they don’t care. It’s your thing, ISTJ’s give you that space and won’t interfere. They’re not distant or uninvolved, it’s your thing.
So much of human interaction is based on the need to be noticed, belong, and fit in. Many actions or words by others may simply be a way to gain a reaction or attention from another. It’s a ploy to be noticed. ISTJ’s are superior at reading patterns into actions so when the perception is that needs are not being heard or will not be met, why stay?
ISTJ’s have the ability to walk into most situations on their own. They’re at their best in small groups or when a few people are involved. In fact, those who have developed and accept their ISTJ traits find themselves comfortable on their own. For instance, they can take in a movie, go for a walk, travel local or international, and live quite happily solo. Why? An innate sense of balance and the lesser need for public recognition or validation with their actions. An innate need for a quiet, orderly life is outside the norm for the U.S. culture. When it takes two or more to do anything, there can be a compromise, but often, there may be a sense of domination happening which will turn off the ISTJ.
At the workplace, they are the best at composing short, directive messages asking for a colleague to contribute something to a joint task. If there’s no response, a follow up may be sent highlighting the task. The same follow up will be vocalized in group meetings as well. If nothing still comes back, they may attempt to go around as the source isn’t cooperating. Should this experience repeat itself, the ISTJ may react adversely. They will examine the message, review the different ways the task has been communicated, and wonder at the competence of the receiver. It’s a task, respond, and move on. A workplace where it’s the norm to get ahead or get by because of kowtowing to the brass won’t make a happy environment. A workplace where it’s common to spend hours of work time socializing will feel like a dead end. ISTJ’s are champions at separating work from personal life and do not often cross the two. Coworkers who have the reverse pattern and bring in every sticky issue on the home front will cause ISTJ’s toes to curl up in their shoes.
ISTJ’s are polite, content, and comfortable within their space. They don’t bore others with unnecessary small talk. When asked about interests, it may be surprised how rich and varied is their private life. They may seem serious or mellow. However, it’s just how that shoe fits. ISTJ’s are task-oriented, genuine, and dependable.
ISTJ’s are cerebral and cultivate over time a tendency to pause and reflect in almost every interaction. When a decision needs to be made on something like what to make for dinner. Consideration is given to what is in the kitchen pantry. How much time there may be to create the meal. And, can this meal be extended to several servings. Naturally frugal, this ISTJ knows how to enjoy flavorful, filing and nutritious meals prepared with what is in the cupboard, fridge or backyard garden. Over time, I’ve developed a talent for making something wonderful out of a handful of ingredients on hand.
I am thankful for the day off. 12:12 p.m. Normally, I’d be getting back to my desk after a little yoga on the lunch hour. Escape, the escape would be over and back to the grind I would be. When I was a teenager, I understood that office work was not for me. The idea of being trapped inside with a bunch of people all day sounded terrible. I had to take an office job when I was in my late 30’s. Why? Pay rent, pay bills, why else?
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